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dear_prudence ([personal profile] dear_prudence) wrote2009-01-15 01:29 pm
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friends cut

by doing so herself, my friend lu has just has just reminded me that it's time i did a bit of a friends cut. i have a very busy life, and i don't always have time to keep up with a giant flist (these things are relative, but 107 is a lot for me). i want the people on my flist to be people i can interact with in a genuine and meaningful way - and that goes both ways, i.e. i want you to be able to get as much love and support from me as i get from you. to me, this pretty much means that we read each others entries and comment more often than not. so, with the word 'friend' somehow incorporated into your subject line, leave a comment to this post if you would like to stay, and know that if you opt out there will be no hard feelings on my part. unless you're sajee, jonathan, dan, esther, shiv, amanda, erin, liz, jen or nett, in which case i'll be on your doorstep in tears, begging to know why you don't love me any more. and that would be particularly awkward in sajee's case as her doorstep is also my doorstep, and it would be peculiar for me to be crying on it... ok, done now.

[identity profile] baggers.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
IF YOU DEFRIENDED ME, I WOULD CRY.

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
psst - if you want to stay you have to read my entries *points at the one above*

these are my friends see how they glisten

[identity profile] odette-river.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't mind keeping me around, I wouldn't mind sticking around. :)
Particularly when I see things like your header.

Re: these are my friends see how they glisten

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
you're in, sweetie! :D

Fiend! Fiend! Wait, friend!

[identity profile] suburbannoir.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
Why are you not making quilts out of old Hawaiian shirts? The Foxtel quilting show tells me that this is the in thing! Is it because you have taste?
Edited 2009-01-15 03:21 (UTC)

Re: Fiend! Fiend! Wait, friend!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
wow - gross... XP

When is a friend not a friend?

[identity profile] tracer123.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
When you don't know them maybe? *shrug*

Your call Esther Ruth DeGraaf-O'Rourke.

Re: When is a friend not a friend?

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
you've been very quiet lately! are you ok?

Thank you for being a frieeeennnnnnndddd....

[identity profile] iowagirl11.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, had to use a line from THE BEST TV SHOW EVER--The Golden Girls.

I'd love to keep reading your entries! I really love hearing about your projects and the RBP! I've been a bit of a laggard commenting lately because this month is so tremendously busy, but I'm still interested in what you have to say!

Re: Thank you for being a frieeeennnnnnndddd....

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
i'd love to keep you x

Please keep me as your friend!

[identity profile] shadowkitten87.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know about you, but I love reading your entries and seeing all your pretty things. I'd like to stay. :P

Re: Please keep me as your friend!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
i'll be keeping you!

Real friends help you move bodies.

[identity profile] twocheeseplease.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
There have only been a few times I've wanted to commit murder. Mostly it's when I see those Cadbury ads and I think "maybe it's okay if I just give them one good knock on the head. It's not cannibalism if I eat a chocolate man... right?"

Re: Real friends help you move bodies.

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:50 am (UTC)(link)
hee - you're adorable XD

friends

[identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
whyyy would you deleete meeee? don't doooo it! :O I just started sewing together my knitted patchwork quilt and you haven't seen it yet!

Re: friends

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
can't wait to see that (and i love having you around, so i'm glad you commented) xxx

Re: friends

[identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com - 2009-01-15 12:46 (UTC) - Expand
ext_101249: (DW: I want to stand with you on a mnt)

Friend!

[identity profile] autumnjoy.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
I couldn't think of a creative subject line. :) I'd love to stay on your flist.

Re: Friend!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:52 am (UTC)(link)
yay! let's stay friends. i love that we can have such different politics, but that iconning and dr who are enough to keep us together XD

will you please be my friend

[identity profile] notcharming.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
i think if you deleted me i would come around and sit on your doorstep crying... hey, wait! i might just do that anyway :/

107 is alot... i scroll by so many entries on my fl now, but i have filters for the ones that really matter, ie the inner circle, and yet my google reader is so expansive that one day away from the pc and i have 500 posts to 'read' but i cant delete or scroll past a single one!

btw. you're in both my inner circle filter and my google reader :)

Re: will you please be my friend

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 08:00 am (UTC)(link)
i consider that an honour.
hey - if you ever want to come around and craft and stuff you're very welcome. i'm on holidays, so there's a lot of that going on at the moment x

friends are lovely

[identity profile] sizeoftheocean.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
i know i don't fit your criteria for regular commenting, but i'd love to hang around for the pretty, please?

Re: friends are lovely

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
consider yourself kept xoxoxo

will you still be my friend?

[identity profile] glittery-girl.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
I will be very upset if you no longer want me on your flist :( Please allow me to stay!
:D

Re: will you still be my friend?

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
*hughughughug*

Friends please?

[identity profile] neko-seraph.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
Nooo, no cuttinz!

Seriously, I love reading all your posts, and looking at all the gorgeous photos of gorgeous things (especially the photos of you!), even if I don't always comment to let you know...

Re: Friends please?

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
of course i'm not cutting you, you silly bean!
we have to come over and meet your kitteh and see your new house soon xoxoxoxoxo

im not much of a friend

[identity profile] bojjie.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
more of a lurker really that enjoys reading about your life....ok, now i sound creepy :S

um, its ok if you unfriend me, i like reading your journal, but i understand you dont really know me, so i'm ok with whatever you decide

take care :)

Friends Forever!

[identity profile] benbasell.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:50 am (UTC)(link)
We wrote a song once called 'Friends Forever'. It was an ode to man friends. It was to the tune of My Sharona, and went like this: "I'm man, you're a man, let's get together. I'm a man, and we are FRIENDS FOREVER."

Please to be my friend. I likes you. That is all.

Re: Friends Forever!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 07:53 am (UTC)(link)
*glomps*
of course you stay!

But you gotta have friends

[identity profile] kbpkrissy.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 08:15 am (UTC)(link)
I couldn't think of anything more original than that. May we stay friends, pease?

Re: But you gotta have friends

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
for sure!

double bicycles were built just for friends

[identity profile] riverdresses.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:02 am (UTC)(link)
(I have no idea where that came from . . . somewhere in the darkness of my mind, I think)

Anyway, I want to stay friends with you! I love reading about your craft projects & seeing your beautiful photos & most of all, I LOVE YOU! ::hugs:: May I stay, please? :)

Re: double bicycles were built just for friends

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
of course you can x

FRIENDY FRIEND FRIEND!!

[identity profile] suspicion-bells.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
I just went through 4 pages of friendship quotes looking for something clever and original for my subject line but alas, I found nothing suitable so I'm sticking with this =p

If you defriend me there's a good chance I just may get on the next plane and land on your doorstep in tears!

Re: FRIENDY FRIEND FRIEND!!

[identity profile] glittery-girl.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:59 am (UTC)(link)
please defriend Kylie if it means she'll get on a plane and come to Melbourne!

Friend

[identity profile] katyscarlett76.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:20 am (UTC)(link)
I feel like we're only just getting to know each other, so I would really like to remain friends :)

I don't comment as often as I'd like to but I always smile when I see your entries on my flist.

Using one of my shiny new Arthur icons because, well it's Arthur :)

Re: Friend

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
merlin fans have got to stick together XD

Don't tell my girlfriend but I think you're really hottttt

[identity profile] sajee.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:44 am (UTC)(link)
<3

Re: Don't tell my girlfriend but I think you're really hottttt

[identity profile] danniiboy.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:46 am (UTC)(link)
But you're ... a girl.

Eeew!
ext_120322: (hex | thelma)

[identity profile] telltale.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
ACK! I missed this post some how!! I want to keep you as a friend! I know we've only been friends a short time, but I love having you on my f-list! <3
ext_120322: (torchwood | you put me in the magic)

FRIENDS DONT LET FRIENDS DEFRIEND MERLIN FANS

[identity profile] telltale.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:48 am (UTC)(link)
subject line failed to work for some reason..

(no subject)

[identity profile] telltale.livejournal.com - 2009-01-15 09:51 (UTC) - Expand

yo, friendlieuchen

[identity profile] lalumena.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 09:59 am (UTC)(link)
...and I do apologise for my severely poos German right there, oh dear. But despite me being busy of late, I do really enjoy seeing and reading your entries and would be sad to have you disappear off my flist! :)

Re: yo, friendlieuchen

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
i love having you on my flist, so i'm glad you want to stay.

my icon keyword is about friends...

[identity profile] thethirdbar.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
i enjoy reading your entries... though admittedly i only comment now and again, and i rarely update my journal, so i understand if you'd rather defriend me, but. well, i like you. :D
Edited 2009-01-15 10:01 (UTC)

Re: my icon keyword is about friends...

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
i like you too, so you're staying! XD

Friend-tasia

[identity profile] piecesofalice.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
Wait - do I have to comment?

Wait. I just commented.

Carry on.

tra la la

Re: Friend-tasia

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 06:36 am (UTC)(link)
*grin*

Friendly McFriendlepants wants to be your Friend.

[identity profile] daniel-bethany.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:04 am (UTC)(link)
Hello from London! Missing you, and eagerly anticipating next week's hugs! yay!

Re: Friendly McFriendlepants wants to be your Friend.

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:55 am (UTC)(link)
oh, honey - we have three weeks of hugs to catch up on! i'm going to resemble a limpet or a baby koala or something.

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