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dear_prudence ([personal profile] dear_prudence) wrote2009-01-15 01:29 pm
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friends cut

by doing so herself, my friend lu has just has just reminded me that it's time i did a bit of a friends cut. i have a very busy life, and i don't always have time to keep up with a giant flist (these things are relative, but 107 is a lot for me). i want the people on my flist to be people i can interact with in a genuine and meaningful way - and that goes both ways, i.e. i want you to be able to get as much love and support from me as i get from you. to me, this pretty much means that we read each others entries and comment more often than not. so, with the word 'friend' somehow incorporated into your subject line, leave a comment to this post if you would like to stay, and know that if you opt out there will be no hard feelings on my part. unless you're sajee, jonathan, dan, esther, shiv, amanda, erin, liz, jen or nett, in which case i'll be on your doorstep in tears, begging to know why you don't love me any more. and that would be particularly awkward in sajee's case as her doorstep is also my doorstep, and it would be peculiar for me to be crying on it... ok, done now.
ext_6531: (DW: Ten and Donna are made of win)

DonnaDoctorFriend?

[identity profile] lizbee.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:15 am (UTC)(link)
Like that, only you don't use as much hair product as him.
ext_109194: (Dr Who - DT Tea!)

You've Got A Friend In Me

[identity profile] mayak2.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:38 am (UTC)(link)
I was going to use [livejournal.com profile] lizbee's subject line... so instead you get the Toy Story song :o)

And the offer's there, too.

Gee I wish I lived in Melbourne. Or at least not on the other side of the country! (Although I do love Pleasantville...) xx

We are advertis'd by our loving friends.

[identity profile] baroquestar.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:49 am (UTC)(link)
Good ol' Shakespeare.

My doorstep's still a little far to come weep upon, so we'd better stay friends for now. When I live down the road, we can forsake each other with far greater convenience. :D

<3 <3 <3

Gay boyfriend

[identity profile] danniiboy.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 10:50 am (UTC)(link)
Sad dandan doesn't make the cut of people on whose doorsteps you'd be crying.

friend

[identity profile] cesario.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 12:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I derive such buckets of inspiration in my own crafty work from seeing pictures of yours, I would be very unhappy not to be able to see them anymore.

speak friend, and enter ...

[identity profile] nalathilion.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 12:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I would miss you terribly if I was cut.

Please tell me I am your friend!

[identity profile] inishmore.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 12:41 pm (UTC)(link)
(Virtual cookies if you can guess where that quote comes from...)

Don't force me to buy a plane ticket to Australia to cry on your doorstep - I need to be able to pay my university fees next month. ;)

[identity profile] deasilvae.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey,
I would still love to see a picture of the rose pinky skirt I madeses
Also
was wondering if you got the books I left with Jen when I was over there last year?

I don't post much, or read live journal all the time like I used to sos I wont cry too loudly if you cull me. =p

[identity profile] willowcanne.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)
no, no, no, I don't want to go! I look forward to your posts!

[identity profile] pumpkingirl71.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 02:51 pm (UTC)(link)
It is OK with me if you cut me, since I almost never update my journal. But I do love reading yours, so you decide.

I think you were away taking amazing pictures of England when I posted this, though:
Image (http://imageshack.us)
Image (http://g.imageshack.us/img211/lukabloomwe1.jpg/1/)

Friends do care and listen!

[identity profile] on-earth.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, totally missed this post! I know I don't update my journal often but I'm always reading my f-list and your posts are so enjoyable and inspirational! That and it makes me nostalgic for my friends I used to have down under. I probably don't comment as much but I try!

Anyhow, friend cuts are your decision. :D

friendfriendfriendfriend

[identity profile] luminous-lu.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Keep me? *smooches*

Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant

[identity profile] riverdale.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Please don't cut me Essie! <3

[identity profile] igrayne.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Ahhh!

I haven't been able to get to LJ to see this! Don't cut me, pleeease? :p

Still friends?

[identity profile] syriane.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm reading my flist backwards in time, I read this post after I read the one with comments disabled so I guess I'm commenting twice on this :)
I really enjoy reading your posts and love your pictures. I know I don't write enough comments, but I'm still hoping you'll keep me on your flist. Please?

Friieeennddss

[identity profile] moodymuse19.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Keep me? *hands you chocolate* XD

[identity profile] gus1111.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I do regularly read and enjoy what you write, even if I don't write my livejournal page or actively comment on other people's.

Still, I understand where you're coming from, and certainly don't want to pressure you into a one-sided friendship, so feel free not to re-add me.

Will see you some time when we're both in the same country!

Gus

I wish I could remember a quote about friends...

[identity profile] elvenjoy.livejournal.com 2009-01-15 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I know I don't comment much, even though I do read, but, I'd still like to be friends!

[identity profile] porcelaines.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
me please!
*raises hand*
I'd love to stay.

(♥)

[identity profile] innocent-alice.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
I would love to stay as your friend, I love reading all of your entries and knowing I am not the only geek trying to get through grad school (even if you make much cuter crafts. :D )

Friend!

[identity profile] skadi.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 08:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'd like to stay because if we weren't friends any more, than I couldn't share stories with my mom and girlfriend about "the Australian lesbians." Seriously. This sounds totally dorky, but it's the easiest way for them to remember who I'm talking about.

Anyway, I actually do tell them about the quilting and gluten free cooking. Because you're my online friend, but I actually really like you as a real person as well, and if I ever visit Australia, I'd love to meet in person. I promise I'm not a serial killer (...mostly).

friends are like fuckersnaps: delicious & somewhat problematic to bake. no, wait. that sounds wrong.

[identity profile] johnnypurple.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 10:55 am (UTC)(link)
hey, wanna catch up on the weekend? i could do something TOMORROW - OMG, MY LAST FREE SATURDAY IN LIKE, ALL YEAR!!! (except for the Sat for your RBP, wheeeeee!) Or perhaps you guys are going to Carnival on Sunday? I was thinking perhaps of going.

PS. I am resisting temptation to click on your post of the invites! I'm going to wait! :D

[identity profile] bondchick-nett.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL I MISSED EVERYTHING!! Greg ([livejournal.com profile] moonlapse) was telling me about the cut last night but I was like WHOA asleep and only half took in what he was saying. xD

I think however what he was saying to me TOTALLY invaded my dreams cause I kept dreaming about costumes to fit your RBP theme! *giggles*

But yes, HELLO I AM THE GLADS YOU READDED MY FACE EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T WRITE HERE BEFOREHAND! xD xD <333333333

a quiet friend...

[identity profile] queen-of-chai.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I know I don't comment much, but I really enjoy reading your posts and seeing your beautiful pictures. I feel a connection with you, and I'd still like to be friends!

friends are not just for christmas

[identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com 2009-01-17 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
ME!

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