I think Glen Harrow is a much nicer choice for you - it's a special place for you already and you need somewhere special for these things and you'll be able to visit there any time afterwards and re-live the event :) My friends sister got married there and said they did such a wonderful job. It's such a beautiful place.

Don't let the yucky people get you down, it's not worth it - maybe fate played a little part today :)