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Dec. 17th, 2008 07:59 am
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i just did my first 'remove friend' on facebook, for this pearler:

"brett rann thinks the abbos should step aside and let hot redhead chicks play the didgeridoo."


he is going down the well, with all the other arseholes. god.


ETA: for those who aren't sure, the issue he's making that witty comment on is this one.

Date: 2008-12-16 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com
i'm confused. you think girls shouldn't play the digeridoo?

Date: 2008-12-16 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
i can't tell if you're joking...

Date: 2008-12-16 09:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com
no, i'm seriously confused...

Date: 2008-12-16 09:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
it's a cultural taboo for women to play the didge in most indigenous cultures - within many indigenous cultures there are men's things and women's things and the didge is a man's thing. and it's not a feminist issue - indigenous women have their own music and wisdom, and men have theirs. it's how they've done it for tens of thousands of years, and for a white colonist to mess with that is not on. she's exploiting an oppressed culture to sell a movie. not cool.

(sorry if i sound patronizing, it's just that this story makes me really mad!)

Date: 2008-12-16 09:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com
Yeah okay. She probably didn't expect it to be a big deal as it was shown in germany though. People don't know that here, I've played a digeridoo. o.O

Date: 2008-12-16 09:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
she's australian. she should know. and if she doesn't she not innocent, she's negligent.

Date: 2008-12-16 09:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com
also, regardless of whether nicole kidman should play the didgeridoo (which, like [livejournal.com profile] peace_bloom says, she should know better), brett rann is a racist fuckhead for calling people "abbos".
Edited Date: 2008-12-16 09:41 pm (UTC)

Date: 2008-12-16 09:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] seoidin.livejournal.com
who is brett rann? is that the guy who left the comment?

Date: 2008-12-16 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com
"brett rann thinks the abbos should step aside and let hot redhead chicks play the didgeridoo."

that guy! i assume it was a facebook update... but i'm not on facebook, so i'm not entirely sure!

Date: 2008-12-16 10:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
yep, it was a facebook comment. and as you say, there is no excuse for using a word like that - it's as bad as calling someone a 'nigger' or a 'boong'.

Date: 2008-12-16 09:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com
oh. my god.

Date: 2008-12-16 09:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
could he be more of a loser. i can't even.
i feel dirty. i have to go wash my eyes.

Date: 2008-12-16 09:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com
i love a good dose of racism with my misogyny in the morning.

Date: 2008-12-16 10:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
keeps us angry.

Date: 2008-12-16 10:02 pm (UTC)
ext_101249: (DW: On New Earth)
From: [identity profile] autumnjoy.livejournal.com
Even after reading the link, I'm a still little bit confused. It's expected that she follow the taboos and traditions of a culture she's not a native of?

Date: 2008-12-16 10:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
by that logic she should not appropriate them either.

Date: 2008-12-16 11:08 pm (UTC)
ext_101249: (Stock: Got open tracks in front of me)
From: [identity profile] autumnjoy.livejournal.com
I still don't really get it, but I probably just shouldn't comment on things having to do with a culture I'm completely unfamiliar with.

And I truly didn't mean to come across as argumentative on your journal.

Date: 2008-12-16 11:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
it's ok, i don't mind an argument about ideas - it's not personal. and i think these things should be talked about! :)

Date: 2008-12-17 12:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skadi.livejournal.com
So "abbos" is a bad word? I know a decent amount about how badly white people from Europe treated the indigenous people of the Americas, but I don't know a lot about your side of the world. The Boy and I were talking about this just the other day, actually. You guys still deal with some really intense problems between the white and the indigenous people, right?


(PS and totally unrelated - I LOVE your new header!)

Date: 2008-12-17 01:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
as i said above, 'abbo' is as bad as 'nigger' or 'boong'. it's derogatory and racist. even aboriginal isn't really a useful word - there are hundreds of indigenous nations within australia (see HERE (http://yolngu.net/Copy%20of%20Aus_map_covered_text_lined.jpg) for a map of them), and many of them have preferred names, but 'indigenous australians' is the best title when talking about them collectively.

yes, australia has a terrible record with our indigenous peoples. we've killed more aboriginals per capita than the nazis did jews. we've destroyed their land, caused hundreds of their languages to be lost, we've stolen their children in order to systematically 'breed the blackness out of them'.
it was only in the 1970s that we stopped legally classing them as fauna.
if you are aboriginal you are 5 to 50 percent more likely to die of ANY disease there is. you are more likely to be imprisoned, less likely to go finish school, and it's almost certain that you won't get to university.

in my country, we have a third world black sub-nation living alongside a first world white one and it is sickening.

i live on wurundjeri country, and i grew up in bundjalung country, and it was stolen from its rightful owners by my forefathers. i'm deeply ashamed of that, though i don't know what to do about it except call people out when they show disrespect for the people who were here long before me.
Edited Date: 2008-12-17 02:48 am (UTC)

Date: 2008-12-22 05:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skadi.livejournal.com
That's really ... well, interesting isn't the right word, but I think you probably know what I mean. Thanks for posting such a long reply. I try to be really conscious of international events (well, international to me, that is), but there's always more to learn!

Date: 2008-12-17 12:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baroquestar.livejournal.com
Missed the status update, but checked, and have now joined you in that removal.

Just... whether you agree or not that a variable taboo applies to NK (I personally wouldn't have played it, but I'm prepared to accept differing opinions on that), the gratuitous racism and sexism was just... Not Cool.

Date: 2008-12-17 01:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
i hope you said something on your way out. what a fucking prick. seriously, i just don't know how people like that can be allowed. ew.

Date: 2008-12-17 01:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baroquestar.livejournal.com
Sadly, I didn't. Rage made me click the X, then I thought, "you know, I should have said... ah well, too late now."

Date: 2008-12-17 01:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
he'll get the message. you taked with your feet. what an effing tool.

oh my god, shiv, i have to pack up our house and the very idea of it is exhausting me. you must be so much worse! :(

Date: 2008-12-18 02:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spillingvelvet.livejournal.com
the abbos? oh, that's charming. he's a real catch, that one.

pfffff.

i'm actually amazed, though. i'd never heard of that custom before.

Date: 2008-12-18 10:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com
no, you wouldn't have. but nic should have, and even if she hadn't, she should have seen how tacky it was for a white chick to approprite indigenous culture to sell her movie :-/

in other news: HI!!! ♥

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