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dear_prudence ([personal profile] dear_prudence) wrote2009-01-15 01:29 pm
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friends cut

by doing so herself, my friend lu has just has just reminded me that it's time i did a bit of a friends cut. i have a very busy life, and i don't always have time to keep up with a giant flist (these things are relative, but 107 is a lot for me). i want the people on my flist to be people i can interact with in a genuine and meaningful way - and that goes both ways, i.e. i want you to be able to get as much love and support from me as i get from you. to me, this pretty much means that we read each others entries and comment more often than not. so, with the word 'friend' somehow incorporated into your subject line, leave a comment to this post if you would like to stay, and know that if you opt out there will be no hard feelings on my part. unless you're sajee, jonathan, dan, esther, shiv, amanda, erin, liz, jen or nett, in which case i'll be on your doorstep in tears, begging to know why you don't love me any more. and that would be particularly awkward in sajee's case as her doorstep is also my doorstep, and it would be peculiar for me to be crying on it... ok, done now.

Re: Friend!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
i'm glad to hear you say that, because i was going to keep you even if you hadn't commented XD
xoxoxox

friends are like fuckersnaps: delicious & somewhat problematic to bake. no, wait. that sounds wrong.

[identity profile] johnnypurple.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 10:55 am (UTC)(link)
hey, wanna catch up on the weekend? i could do something TOMORROW - OMG, MY LAST FREE SATURDAY IN LIKE, ALL YEAR!!! (except for the Sat for your RBP, wheeeeee!) Or perhaps you guys are going to Carnival on Sunday? I was thinking perhaps of going.

PS. I am resisting temptation to click on your post of the invites! I'm going to wait! :D

Re: friends are like fuckersnaps: delicious & somewhat problematic to bake. no, wait. that sounds wr

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 11:33 am (UTC)(link)
oh no! we have a v important rbp meeting in the hills tomorrow. we're going to the venue to talk to the peeps about food and flowers and stuffs.
and on sunday we have plans too :'(
maybe we could catch up during the week..?

[identity profile] johnnypurple.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 11:51 am (UTC)(link)
that's ok. during the week, yes! i am back to work on tuesday, but could do monday... or possibly maybe wednesday... or an evening sometime. we could catch up altogether perhaps with the boys too after they get back?? :D

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 11:55 am (UTC)(link)
we'll work something out x

[identity profile] bondchick-nett.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL I MISSED EVERYTHING!! Greg ([livejournal.com profile] moonlapse) was telling me about the cut last night but I was like WHOA asleep and only half took in what he was saying. xD

I think however what he was saying to me TOTALLY invaded my dreams cause I kept dreaming about costumes to fit your RBP theme! *giggles*

But yes, HELLO I AM THE GLADS YOU READDED MY FACE EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T WRITE HERE BEFOREHAND! xD xD <333333333

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
i hope you dreamed some lovely ensembles!
i forgot that moonlapse was greg, and accidentally cut him, but i just added him back. i am a ditz.

[identity profile] bondchick-nett.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 12:27 pm (UTC)(link)
*dies so hard*

I WILL BE LOOKING FOR SLICE MARKS UPON HIS PERSON LATER! xD

And hey, he NEVER posts he just uses his journal to stalk awesome people so I'd understand why you'd be like "WHUT!?" and remove his face. xD

Only I do like his face where it is, so putting it back is really quite lovely of you. ;) <33333333

AND YES I DID! And I went looking for some stuff today and found some AWESOME Headbands and fascinators but I think I'll be copying them not buying cause WTF $125 for some feathers that I could make myself even in ma broken states? NO THANKS KIDS!

Methinks we'll be hitting up some Op Shops for Greg's look first and then I'll go crazy sewing myself something to match it xD

ARE YOU GUYZ ONLY DOING THE OXFAMS FOR YOUR RBP OR CAN I BRING PRESENTSES AS WELL?! I had an awesome idea for a gift but I fear that you know so many other fabulous people that you might get multiples of this gift... *flail*

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 12:34 pm (UTC)(link)
you wil both look adorable, i'm certain!

if you bring a present, we promise not to throw it back at you and spit on it, but there is no obligation to bring a present x

Re: Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant

[identity profile] riverdale.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
*relief*

:D

a quiet friend...

[identity profile] queen-of-chai.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 06:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I know I don't comment much, but I really enjoy reading your posts and seeing your beautiful pictures. I feel a connection with you, and I'd still like to be friends!

Re: a quiet friend...

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
then friends we shall be xoxo

[identity profile] willowcanne.livejournal.com 2009-01-16 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you :)

friends are not just for christmas

[identity profile] nixwilliams.livejournal.com 2009-01-17 10:32 am (UTC)(link)
ME!

Friends & friands - if either are missing, morning tea is incomplete.

[identity profile] mistersteve.livejournal.com 2009-01-18 01:12 pm (UTC)(link)
How else will I know when Study Times are back on? Through non-internet communication? THAT WOULD BE CRAZY.

Re: Friends & friands - if either are missing, morning tea is incomplete.

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-18 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
hah - you were never getting take off the flisr xoxo

[identity profile] matan4il.livejournal.com 2009-01-19 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Of course I want to be around. And always will want to. <3

make new friends but KEEP the old

[identity profile] ipso--facto.livejournal.com 2009-01-20 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry! Let me try this again with a little less 'OMG the phone is ringing!'

I understand not having time to keep up with the flist, and if you need to cut me, I won't be offended. I would like to stay, though, even knowing I'm pretty terrible at commenting these days and only lately getting back to actually saying much myself. Your posts always help me to take a step back and appreciate what I have in my life and the beauty around me. It's a good feeling when you pop up on my flist.
Edited 2009-01-20 16:25 (UTC)

Re: friends are not just for christmas

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
duh!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
<333

Re: make new friends but KEEP the old

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-21 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
stick around, honey x

[identity profile] xxxlibris.livejournal.com 2009-01-22 09:46 am (UTC)(link)
Me! Me! Me for the keeping!

[identity profile] dear-prudence.livejournal.com 2009-01-22 10:05 am (UTC)(link)
of course!

Friends :(

[identity profile] hackergroupie.livejournal.com 2009-01-22 11:52 am (UTC)(link)
I missed your friend cut because I'm very bad with LJ these days. BUT -- when I do check lj I always read your journal and would love to stay friends... add me back?

[identity profile] nimfaeriel.livejournal.com 2009-01-22 05:38 pm (UTC)(link)
*smiles* aah, keeping up with everyone sure is hard!
well, i don't comment much (ok, rarely) cause i have less time online than i used to but it's always a pleasure for me reading your words and looking at your pretty pretty pics! and i'm in awe of the gorgeous items you make!
as for my lj, i haven't updated it in ages, although i'm thinking of trying to write regularly again... we'll see!
that said, i'll understand if you'd rather defriend me.
and in any way, i wish you and saj the best for the future ♥
take care xxx
gally

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