dear_prudence | friends cut

by doing so herself, my friend lu has just has just reminded me that it's time i did a bit of a friends cut. i have a very busy life, and i don't always have time to keep up with a giant flist (these things are relative, but 107 is a lot for me). i want the people on my flist to be people i can interact with in a genuine and meaningful way - and that goes both ways, i.e. i want you to be able to get as much love and support from me as i get from you. to me, this pretty much means that we read each others entries and comment more often than not. so, with the word 'friend' somehow incorporated into your subject line, leave a comment to this post if you would like to stay, and know that if you opt out there will be no hard feelings on my part. unless you're sajee, jonathan, dan, esther, shiv, amanda, erin, liz, jen or nett, in which case i'll be on your doorstep in tears, begging to know why you don't love me any more. and that would be particularly awkward in sajee's case as her doorstep is also my doorstep, and it would be peculiar for me to be crying on it... ok, done now.

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IF YOU DEFRIENDED ME, I WOULD CRY.

If you don't mind keeping me around, I wouldn't mind sticking around. :)
Particularly when I see things like your header.

Why are you not making quilts out of old Hawaiian shirts? The Foxtel quilting show tells me that this is the in thing! Is it because you have taste?

Edited 2009-01-15 03:21 (UTC)

psst - if you want to stay you have to read my entries *points at the one above*

wow - gross... XP

you're in, sweetie! :D

OH SNAP I WAS BEING A SMART ASS AND THEN MISSED THE "IN THE SUBJECT LINE" PART.

When you don't know them maybe? *shrug*

Your call Esther Ruth DeGraaf-O'Rourke.

Sorry, had to use a line from THE BEST TV SHOW EVER--The Golden Girls.

I'd love to keep reading your entries! I really love hearing about your projects and the RBP! I've been a bit of a laggard commenting lately because this month is so tremendously busy, but I'm still interested in what you have to say!

I don't know about you, but I love reading your entries and seeing all your pretty things. I'd like to stay. :P

There have only been a few times I've wanted to commit murder. Mostly it's when I see those Cadbury ads and I think "maybe it's okay if I just give them one good knock on the head. It's not cannibalism if I eat a chocolate man... right?"

whyyy would you deleete meeee? don't doooo it! :O I just started sewing together my knitted patchwork quilt and you haven't seen it yet!

I couldn't think of a creative subject line. :) I'd love to stay on your flist.

i think if you deleted me i would come around and sit on your doorstep crying... hey, wait! i might just do that anyway :/

107 is alot... i scroll by so many entries on my fl now, but i have filters for the ones that really matter, ie the inner circle, and yet my google reader is so expansive that one day away from the pc and i have 500 posts to 'read' but i cant delete or scroll past a single one!

btw. you're in both my inner circle filter and my google reader :)

i know i don't fit your criteria for regular commenting, but i'd love to hang around for the pretty, please?

I will be very upset if you no longer want me on your flist :( Please allow me to stay!
:D

Nooo, no cuttinz!

Seriously, I love reading all your posts, and looking at all the gorgeous photos of gorgeous things (especially the photos of you!), even if I don't always comment to let you know...

you've been very quiet lately! are you ok?

i'll be keeping you!

more of a lurker really that enjoys reading about your life....ok, now i sound creepy :S

um, its ok if you unfriend me, i like reading your journal, but i understand you dont really know me, so i'm ok with whatever you decide

take care :)

hee - you're adorable XD

We wrote a song once called 'Friends Forever'. It was an ode to man friends. It was to the tune of My Sharona, and went like this: "I'm man, you're a man, let's get together. I'm a man, and we are FRIENDS FOREVER."

Please to be my friend. I likes you. That is all.

can't wait to see that (and i love having you around, so i'm glad you commented) xxx

yay! let's stay friends. i love that we can have such different politics, but that iconning and dr who are enough to keep us together XD

*glomps*
of course you stay!

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friends cut

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these are my friends see how they glisten

Fiend! Fiend! Wait, friend!

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subconsciously, maybe i don't want to be your friend!

When is a friend not a friend?

Thank you for being a frieeeennnnnnndddd....

Please keep me as your friend!

Real friends help you move bodies.

friends

Friend!

will you please be my friend

friends are lovely

will you still be my friend?

Friends please?

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Re: Please keep me as your friend!

im not much of a friend

Re: Real friends help you move bodies.

Friends Forever!

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Re: Friend!

Re: Friends Forever!